It was here that I took the massage workshop, and was given this assignment. I'm shy, and not inclined to reach out to strangers, but I'm having such a great time here that I need some way to give back to this amazing community, and the workshop has given me an excuse. So when I see a stranger who has ducked into a large shelter to find respite from the dry heat and the unyielding dust of the Black Rock desert, I make my offer in an attempt to fulfill my obligation.
The response is an immediate and enthusiastic yes," and in moments I'm giving my first massage.
Over the next few days I repeat my offer, but I still feel shy. With each massage, my confidence builds - not because of how many people accept my offer, and not because each time, once the massage is over, the recipient's eyes light up as they tell me warmly and enthusiastically how wonderful it was. "That was amazing!" "Thank so you much!" And, more than once, "You should do this professionally!"
What builds my confidence is this: during the massages, I can tell instantly when I'm doing something right. I notice the subtlest responses to my touch - tiny movements, changes in breathing and muscle tension that let me know exactly what my client is feeling. It's exhilarating, and when I'm done I feel as relaxed, and as healed, as they do. By the end of the week, just a few massages later, I'm starting to feel like a true healer.
Too soon, I go back home to my job as a systems administrator. I had been finding the work stressful and unfulfilling, but after that week in the desert it feels easy and relaxing. Nothing can stress me out anymore - at least, not for a few weeks. Soon the tedium begins to grind on me again, and I get home every night feeling drained and empty, without the mental energy to socialize or even maintain a hobby.
It took several more years before I realized I needed to make a more permanent change. During my fourth visit to Burning Man, I gave more massages than ever. I could no longer ignore the fact that massage was fulfilling and meaningful to me in a way that fixing computers never would be.